It’s messed up that this classic wasn’t already here. Being such a cultural phenomenon, along with being an undeniable personal favorite. And I’ve always admired (and found relief and comfort in) Alanis Morissette’s character and what came from it. But it’s not like I’ve been keeping my appreciation a secret, either!
Ironic, in particular, is especially peculiar to me because of how anecdotal it is, as it goes through and over many of the ways in which life can go, both being grounded and having perspective. I first listened to it around the time it came out, while I was a kid, and couldn’t get enough of it. Back then, I lacked the life experience to relate to it and more fully grasp it, but I was still intrigued and fascinated, somehow resonating regardless. Later on and still today, it became and remains relatable in a more pinpointable way.
“Life has a funny way of sneaking up on you. And life has a funny way of helping you out…” I mean, tattoo worthy indeed! Albeit not fond of the tragedy, I absolutely love how full of terrible, or just non-ideal, things the song can be, but then this line hits. Then it’s like, “Oh.” And it is sooo stabilizing. Yet, also, ironic.
I did listen to many of her songs while I was growing up, maybe chasing a similar effect and/or state (but don’t get me started about her more hot-tempered songs because I totally enjoyed those too! Talk about snapping!). Going back, though, I remember listening to Hand In My Pocket a lot as well and found it profoundly reassuring. It is, to me, such an ‘Everybody starts somewhere’ anthem. Plus, her personality is all over it. And this is just another example of the gem that she is.
I am so fortunate I didn’t miss out on Alanis Morissette’s art during my upbringing that I have to try really hard not to project my inclinations & preferences onto others and feel sorry for them if they did. And if that’s the case for you, I don’t know how to console you. Other than, hey, it is not too late!
