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Sunday, December 8, 2024

Comfort & Security or Luxury & Status


You can have them all, for sure! And if you’re aspiring to thrive, and not just survive, aiming for all of them, in some measure, at some point, is a good idea.

But have you wondered enough about them? What do they really mean? What do they imply and entail? And what obsessing with any of these says and tells others about you? Here’s a hint: it is not what makes you better than the rest.


Comfort and security serve a preservation purpose while luxury and status serve a positioning purpose. The former has to do more with the self, what you need and want regardless of others, and the latter has to do more with others, what you need and want regardless of yourself. And if you can accomplish all of it, what is there left to worry about? They don’t have to be at odds.

If you tend to value comfort and security the most, having your own space for nourishment and enrichment is important to you. You might be what can be called a homebody. You are possibly modest, even humble. And might have trouble wrapping your head around why others invest so much in showing off - often at the expense of having comfort and security first.

If you tend to value luxury and status the most, your image and how others view you is important to you. You might be what can be called vain. Perhaps you are acutely aware of how that benefits you, opening up opportunities for you, getting you VIP treatment, and allowing you into some of the most select areas and circles. You could have trouble understanding why anyone would pass up on that - and rejoice in the lifestyle that so few get to have.

You could have been brought up like this and it is simply what you are familiar with, so that is how you roll, unquestioningly. Or, on the contrary, you lacked it so much before that you committed to never again be without it (may take it to the extreme, too). Either way, prejudice and resentment could form.

However, while it is sensible to say that one must learn to prioritize and practice moderation, completely denying yourself some level of any would do you a disservice. It is still up to you to figure out what you genuinely appreciate the most and in what amount, as well as what would be a suitable means to a worthy end, but watch out for the pressure to value in excess what you sincerely wouldn’t.

May you make your life an unregrettable and unforgettable experience!

CREDIT: AI-Generated Examples done on Leonardo.AI

Thursday, December 5, 2024

The Power of Pluralism


I do believe that Pluralism is very possible. However, as with most things, only to a degree. There are divisions that we can do without and divisions that we require. But like Obama himself pointed out, it isn’t about holding hands and singing Kumbaya.

It isn’t about compromising entirely and losing your own convictions. It’s about building bridges and coming together despite our differences when there’s a common goal to achieve or problem to solve. You can gather around and be civil with others for a specific purpose. You don’t have to view them as your best pal and give yourself wholly to them. Boundaries are as important as certain compromises can be.

There will be people who, if at all, must be treated at a distance and/or with vigilance because they have shown to be harmful or dangerous, and cannot be trusted, or to be left be with minimal to no interaction, as their manner of being has proved to be detrimental to you and yours. But otherwise, for inclusive progress that is broader and greater, gotta work with people who don’t share your exact same principles, values, and beliefs - at least every once in a while, here and there.

For me, I do have the luxury of cutting out as many people as I wish to out of my life. I made sure my lifestyle allowed me that. Growing up forced to be in the company of people who were literally driving me to the brink, I swore I’d never go through the same again. But you can bet that sometimes I do put my own desires and preferences aside - when there’s a job to be done and putting myself above that would just be awfully self-centered. Yet, as human beings, we all have our undeniable limits and it’s on us to note what they are so we can respect them and not lose ourselves.

Humans are complex, but also gifted in many ways. Ways that may be more complementary than they are contradicting. And we miss out on that when we let prejudices dictate our every move. Figuring out what rules and norms to set in place for things to run smoothly enough would be The Challenge. And likely an ongoing task...

Sunday, December 1, 2024

Business or Charity? Both?


It definitely doesn’t have to be one or the other. In fact, existing exclusively as one or the other can lead to failure.

If you orient yourself too fully to business, which seems like the smartest thing to do, there will be lines that you will be crossing, of questionable morals and ethics. And while you could keep going in such a way, it will be causing numerous problems for you to tend to or attempt to ignore. The chances of it imploding or you breaking under the pressure would continue to increase. Until it happens. (And if you’ve got any conscience, you wouldn’t enjoy that sort of existence.) 

Alternatively, orienting yourself too fully to charity, which seems like the noblest thing to do, whether in the strict or wider sense of the word, can have you adopting beliefs against the very actions that would take you further or at least keep you afloat. And if providing for others is your intention, you must put and maintain yourself in positions that allow you to. The same or better. Instead of ceasing to exist.


You can find a balance and incorporate both attitudes into what you’re doing. Without any guilt or shame. The how would depend on what is it you do, which strategies and tactics would best suit it, taking into account what is relevant for its success. Whether you’re (re)introducing something or adjusting based on current offer and demand.

Naturally, you would have a stronger inclination to one than another side. And perhaps, despite knowing better, you are perpetually compelled to keep inching toward it. It can be as relieving to treat everything as a transaction as it can be relieving to treat everything as a contribution. But there comes a point where you must pull back to the other side. It doesn’t have to be an equal distribution. You don’t have to sit precisely in the center. People are born to deal with one side more than the other. And if it’s simply not in you, you can delegate it.

What comes easiest to you? What invigorates you the most and barely ever tires you? This could be circumstantial, and you could have different answers at different periods, as your brain pushes to activate and develop in various sections. But there may ultimately be a default for you to lean into.

CREDIT: AI-Generated Examples done on Leonardo.AI

Christmas Month


December arrives again!
And with it, at last, the Christmas mood.
If you enjoy this holiday (secularly or not), you can indulge it with me.
I celebrate it with festive and solidary content and vibes here and there.


Another Winter


Another winter arrives…
Sanctuaries, lights, cookies, and milk.
With the dark getting darker and the cold colder,
It is time to celebrate past work and prepare for future work.
You deserve retreat, rest, and restoration.

Thursday, November 28, 2024

How's The World's Culture Progressing This Year, 2024?

We’re in my third year of religiously publishing my views and opinions on culture and how it is progressing (or regressing). You can read my 2022 article and my 2023 article, too.

My Personal Stance
Still, again, it remains the same! As it has been from the very beginning, I stand for what is truthful, effective, and fair. I don’t yet have all the answers, but I do my best to consider and weigh different views and opinions to grasp the reality of the matter and find solutions to issues. Generally, I see that people are either ignorant, confused, misguided, malicious, pushing an agenda, or a combination of two or more of those. And I try to have patience but it can run out.

Cultural Progress in 2024
I think calling it disastrous would be an understatement. We’re in a time when many people don’t know why things are or how they came to be - and they believe themselves to be free thinkers merely for going against what many others have been sacrificing and working hard for, that even benefits THEM, without a real basis for it other than being oppositional and standing out. It’s gotten messy and the point, more often than not, is missed. Shallow “understanding” reigns. You can still find a few beacons of light sorting it all out. But in such an increasingly fast-paced world, where being sensational is more rewarded than being thorough, indifference to the truth increases.

Points
This year, as we fear entering a “dark age”, where culture suffers for the worst, I’d like to cover as much as I can, while being brief and concise with each point, so it is all at least established and we don’t lose sight of it. But first, a lengthier paragraph on women’s liberation.

• Women’s Liberation
Men are being openly disgusting in more ways than I can stomach. Women wish to love and respect men, but a lot of them make it nearly impossible (or indeed impossible unless deluded). They miss “how things were before” and take their battered mother as the example that women should strive towards for them. They don’t like to compete with women and be outperformed (many of them don’t even grasp that most of us prefer to cooperate instead and that that’s also an option). They’d rather keep women down and “in their place”, and worry only about other men. They believe it’s more of a flex to have a woman they mistreat than it is to actually become a man who is not threatened by a woman’s success and freedom to choose, and is genuinely a catch. Lately, they’re being seen as ‘resentful closeted gays’ because they just hate women so much (but it’s more complex than that). It’s gotten to where the few men that do love and care for women have to actively justify themselves to others for such. Meanwhile, the term “pick me” is regaining serious meaning with more females willing to degrade themselves and throw the rest under the bus for male validation. Others are being the complete opposite (promoting using and discarding men like objects, basically becoming the worst that men have been, in retaliation or to make it even, sinking to their level) and giving men more confirmation bias as they miss the mirror reflecting their own behavior. The sides can argue forever and never gain perspective while being stuck in their ego and egotistical desires. But whatever happens, I will not respond nicely if anyone attempts to force me into unmerited submission and compliance in the name of gender roles. And I’m not alone in that.

• People of Color
Racism is dumb. Measure people based on the content of their character, not the color of their skin. Make amends if due. Check yourself, your privilege, and your prejudice. Whatever color you are.

• Homosexuality & Bisexuality
It happens in nature, it is something natural. And in the case of some individuals, it is something that cannot be denied or repressed. It doesn’t have to be “normalized” in the sense that everyone engages in it, but it should be normalized in the sense that everyone should know by now that it’s no reason to look down on others, mock, ostracize, or harm them in any way. “It’s deranged sexual behavior!” You know what IS deranged sexual behavior? Rape and any kind of lying, manipulation, and coercion to have access to sex. And that’s something STRAIGHT MEN do too often.

• Transgenders Transitioning
Having reached a mature age (at least 18 y/o), transitioning after you’ve reflected enough and concluded that you cannot gladly accept the body you were born in and would be happier in the body of a different gender? Okay. Transitioning because you hate yourself and that’s the solution that occurs to you? Not okay. Identifying as this or that out of whim or convenience without undergoing any significant revelation or transformation? Diabolical (think about all the ways that can go). There should be acceptance and accommodation for legitimately trans people, but the consideration should still go both ways. Gotta say it because I’ve come across a few quite awful ones: You’re not the only one with issues. Others, though? Brilliant and lovely people. Some of whom have gone through more pain than I wish on anybody. Also, trans or not, cross-dressing shouldn’t be a big deal - keep it a fun thing anyone can try whenever.

• Sex Workers
In my opinion, it must be kept legal and safe, taboo-free. I don’t even want to say why. Figure it out. Imagine how much worse it’d get without sex workers. I see no problem with it as long as it’s done willingly and compensated accordingly, with due security measures in place. The fetishes indulged and the negative effects that over-relying on sex workers can have are things to watch out for, though.

• Abortion
Why is this still being discussed? Men insist on having women as baby ovens against all reason. “But the declining birth rate!” Well, effing prepare and rearrange for it as you do for an increasing population. It’s like it’s not even the real reason. As if an overabundance of unwanted children is going to fix society. Said it before and I’ll say it again, having restraint and reservation to avoid unplanned pregnancy is important. But if it comes to be, we should have access to proper abortion assistance.

• Disability
I don’t know how to explain to you that you should care about others. Regardless of how ‘productive’ they are. Not treat them as a burden and suggest they off themselves. What have we come to?

• Immigration
If it’s legal, they’re well-behaved, and there’s room, what is really the problem? Most of them aren’t even ‘taking the jobs’ you’d like to take (or are qualified for).

• Narcissism
It used to be that people threw around those terms too freely. But lately, it seems narcissism and more are on the rise and you’d be fortunate to find someone who isn’t narcissistic or worse. Wanna guess what I blame for it? We all should be more educated on this and keep it from getting worse.

• It’s offensive!
This has been a problem for a long time and still lingers. Though maybe not as much anymore, with all the pushback (from both progressives and conservatives). In any case, it is always necessary to distinguish when something is merely offensive (because it contradicts your notion of how things are or should be - or fails to give you special treatment) and when something is actually harmful (wounds you psychologically, deteriorates your dignity, or impacts your place in your environment and community). Open and direct dialog is required to make genuine progress - without walking on eggshells, beating around the bush, or fearing ‘being canceled’ because you weren’t tactful and diplomatic enough. (If there’s intention to hurt in it, that’s another thing.)

And again. That’s all for now. I may still sporadically engage and elaborate on various topics, but expect the continuation of this post next year. Please stay lucid and keep improving!

It’s Thanksgiving and I’m Thankful!

Looking around, the blessings seem countless! I’m both overwhelmed and relieved!

Things have been working out or falling apart in… interesting ways. I’m thankful for the good that comes in and the bad that goes out, making room for more and better. I’m thankful for the support, the assistance, and the opportunities sent my way. And while I’m certainly not without woes, it is all part of the package I signed up for and it keeps pushing me forward - to a place where these problems won’t be problems or even be there anymore.

More specifically, this year, I’m thankful for:
- The amazing people I’ve unexpectedly met.
- The ongoing devotion toward humanness and humanity.
- The shared laughs and cries as we make it through.
- The silliness with the wittiness lessening the load.
- The numerous gifts and celebrations enhancing all.

Yet, as great as it all has been, it is not the peak and can still go further up. Regardless, if it somehow goes downhill from here, I’m faithful it’ll be manageable and we’ll get through to the other side with more experience and expertise. I just pray the challenges will be more fortifying than destructive.

So…
Happy Thanksgiving, pals!
I’m hoping your blessings won’t pass you by and wishing you’re showered with even more blessings!

Sunday, November 24, 2024

Be Careful What You Wish For


I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase. Unfortunately, there is truth to it. It may not happen immediately, if at all, but you could be cautious or at least prepared for what might happen.

Sometimes a wish sets into motion much within us. And sometimes much within us sets a wish into motion. In both cases, something is at work. It may not even require any divine intervention. You may fulfill it yourself, knowingly or not.


What is tricky is that they come in a package. Including more than you “signed up” for. And often, that is inevitable. You cannot have one thing without the other. Not in this universe and the mysterious (yet explainable) ways in which it works.

If you wish for strength, you won’t suddenly be strong with the snap of your fingers. You will have to go through and/or swallow what will make you strong. And not only that, once you are strong, you will have the consequences of it. Things will shift. You will be looked at differently and treated differently. For better and for worse. You will also begin attracting or repelling based on it. And with all of this, you would have sacrificed what cannot coexist with the fact of you being strong.

The same, in essence, can be applied to other wishes. Because as chaotic and whimsical as life may seem, it is still strictly governed by certain rules.

When you make a wish, know that you are making a trade. And sometimes, depending on what you currently have going on for you, that trade will bring about tremendous change. You might be forced to let go of and lose things that you would rather keep and even cling to. Because, again, they are not compatible with your wish or are getting in the way of it. If it is only the latter, there may be room again for them later on. A typical example would be people who are holding you back more than you realize or admit to yourself while you hold on to them dearly. It can be painful.

It gets worse if you resist. If the wish is inevitably coming true but you are stubbornly keeping in place what is keeping it out, devastating destruction could manifest. Does this mean you should always be flexible and open to anything? And simply go with the flow? No, that is quite dangerous too. It means that you should try to figure out what is an obstacle to it and, if you can’t, be ready to endure what will reveal it as such. 

So, be careful what you wish for.

CREDIT: AI-Generated Examples done on Leonardo.AI

Wednesday, November 20, 2024

Sagittarius' Description


♐ SAGITTARIUS
Sagittarius, the ninth sign, is a fire and mutable sign, adventurous and optimistic. Known for its love of freedom and exploration, it is the eternal seeker of knowledge and truth through expanding its horizons. Often embarking on journeys both physical and philosophical, they collect experiences and ponder with openness. As an archer, it aims for higher understanding and idealistic aspirations. Having done and seen so much, it doesn't take itself too seriously and is prone to humor.

Spiritually, Sagittarius leads to expansion and enlightenment. It teaches us the importance of accepting diversity and finding meaning in the vast tapestry of life, reminding us that the journey can be as important as the destination.

For context and more of relevance, please read about The Zodiac.

Sunday, November 17, 2024

Saviors (Hero & Anti-Hero)


Now let's get Saviors in perspective, a role that Leaders tend to slip into, whether by accident or not.

We could say that Saviors can be both what is considered a Hero and what is considered an Anti-Hero. But what are they all about and how do they compare? And perhaps more importantly, do you have a savior complex or is it indeed part of your destiny? If the latter, what is in store for you?

Look closer to see. Ponder further to connect how it all relates. And let it prompt you to acknowledge even more.

What is happening in, for, against, and around you?

Qualities of a Leader


Let us all get on the same page, shall we?
Initiative + Vision = Leader

By definition, and in essence, a leader is somebody who leads or takes the lead. Because of this, having Initiative (which is composed of a number of other qualities) as well as Vision (which is also composed of a number of other qualities) are basic requirements to fit the role and merit the title.

However, even by meeting those requirements, leaders can be anywhere from embarrassingly awful to impressively outstanding. And normally, there are traits that signal to others that someone (or something) is a potential or official leader in some realm and can be followed.

Unfortunately, though, because of the real or imagined prestige and power that comes with such a hierarchical position, there will be many striving to take the spot despite their ability to SERVE as a Leader (an ability that earns and justifies having others serve them in return). Instead, they would be more interested in being SERVED and have that as their main motivation and intention around which all else revolves and adapts. And not uncommonly, it is, regardless, achieved (thank the cultures and systems that incentivize, reward, and condition these behaviors).

Nevertheless, and in spite of everything, if you’re seeking to become an apt leader in your work, your community, or what have you, you should be striving for more. Perhaps you are driven by achieving genuine excellence - for your character’s sake, for your contribution’s sake, or for both. And amassing followers would merely be a result of that.

Yet, at times, more is at stake, and you must or are compelled to extend yourself to convince others that you are worth it. In such cases, certain qualities can draw in and keep around people. No. It is not manipulation - that’s conning, not leading. And it is not coercion - that’s oppressing, not leading.


A legitimate leader could, roughly, be recognized and measured through these qualities. Great Leaders are capable of possessing all of these. However, Level 0 is only justifiable under extremely dire circumstances (e.g. delaying, escaping, or defeating terrible enemies or scenarios). Lousy Leaders barely make it up to Level 4, maybe very selectively do Level 5 and Level 6 to keep up, over-relying on the worst of Level 1 if terrible enough. Treacherously skipping levels, or constructing the illusion of accomplishing them, is also a possibility. 

The bad news is: A lot of people only focus on, settle for, or are fooled by Levels 0 to 4.
The good news is: Without taking away from the higher ones, you can still hook people with the lower ones. So good and great leadership is still possible (and exists).

Ultimately, if you’re ambitious and would rather not run solely on smoke and mirrors, I recommend dedicating yourself to reaching and covering as many of these levels as you can in your area and scope. Even if you don’t make it to Level 10 in this lifetime, the rest are still quite the feat.

Where & How You Grow Matters


You can overlook it, you can deny it, but how you were brought up makes a difference. Yes, you can go far because or despite of it, but there still lie advantages that carry you through and disadvantages that you must get through.

How was your world as a child? Was it full of magic? Were you fortunate enough to have caregivers who accepted, embraced, and even promoted your artistic inclinations? Were you surrounded by all the support you could ask for to fulfill your potential? If that is so, you’ve got a headstart that can help you endure even the most unwelcoming world awaiting you. If not, then you will be relying on the forces within you and what you can get ahold of outside of you to make it through.


Many would give up, and that is understandable, but they might later find that they shouldn’t have. They’d let that part of them die or remain dormant, or they might pick it up again in the form of a hobby or more if their life allows it. If the former, resentment and even envy could plague them. If the latter, some relief and fulfillment are achieved.

People often make the mistake of attributing their successes to their will alone. But that is oversimplistic or downright blind. Several factors will play a role. You’re never so completely isolated that they aren’t to thank (or to blame). However, will (along with attitude) does make up for a lot and should be emphasized.

Still, if you are put and remain in an environment that is not conducive to artistry, it will be a constant battle for it to survive. And if you wish to be an artist, you should look for favorable conditions to bring it forth. Perhaps you missed out on the childhood that would give it to you, but you’re not too late to put yourself in circumstances that are right for you and for your art.

Now, it is not all imagination and sensations with a dreamy and magical touch to it. Maybe that’s not your thing. So beyond having the space to actually make art without interruptions or detractions that deter you, you could curate what would feed your style and your brand of it. Whether in your room, at your office, as your regular activities, or with what you usually consume. Art will then move in, through, and out of you with more ease as you continue to practice it.

And if you’re a parent with an artistic child, you know what to do to care for them. Maybe they’ll go on to be an extraordinary and acclaimed artist. Or maybe they’ll just get to explore that side of them and grow to not have any regrets. Both are good.

CREDIT: AI-Generated Examples done on Leonardo.AI

Saturday, November 16, 2024

The Artist's RPG (Teaser)


It’s here! The Artist’s RPG. Well, the first materialization of it. Sort of a teaser.

This is something that came to me over a year ago, one day when one of the skills showed to be of undeniable value. It compelled me to make an artist’s “Skill Tree”, RPG-style. And since then, it has been on the back of my mind. Over time, however, more and more came into perspective as part of what makes up an artist’s journey. And folks, this is our artistic universe taking shape.

Because I committed to the mission of Unbriddling & Sustaining Artistic Abilities, this suitably goes along with my work and I could allow myself to devote to its design and development. Which you’ll see more of as I go on.

For now, I’m only displaying some of what composes the player’s character build…
- Via: Sight, Hearing, Smell, Taste, Touch, Imagination.
- Essence: Yellow, Orange, Red, Pink, Purple, Blue, Green, Brown, Tropical, & Void.
- Force: Light, Dark.
- Resources: Fortune, Security, Fame, Influence.
- Presence: Barrier, Medium.
- Skills: Artistry, Venture, Body, Mind, Heart, Spirit, Grit, Collision, Sensitivity, Immersion, Revealing, Fueling, Healing, Ascension, Transcendence.
- Manner: Traditional, Modern.
- Form: Writing, Painting, Sculpting, Composing, Singing, Dancing, Acting, Culinary Arts, etc.


I aim to further describe what it is all about. And I’ll start by turning these components into cards that contain information about them. From what I have established so far, there would be at least 50 cards. They can be expected throughout next year. But if you're a veteran artist, chances are that you can already tell what they represent!

Given the immensity of this project, countless revisions are to be made, so that it can continue to grow and expand while remaining coherent and cohesive. Therefore, nothing is absolutely set in stone yet. Structure and format are subject to change, along with the details of it.

Other than that, I hope you, RPG-loving Artists, can find joy and more in it. I already do!
(And may we live long enough to watch it unroll to its more majestic degrees.)

CREDIT: Teaser images made with AI Art and Clip Art.

Sunday, November 10, 2024

Reading the Room


You make your reality, but what is already there? Pausing to take in what’s outside yourself can show you what you can bring from within yourself to it. It’s not necessarily about turning into the same and blending in.

Reading the room is essential for many reasons. You see what you’re getting yourself into. What is moving around you. How it’s going. What it is lacking. And what it is already overloaded with. This information is required to make an educated guess on what would be an appropriate or suitable way to behave at that time and place. Or if, instead, you shouldn’t even bother with it and head for the exit.


Listen to what is being said, but also hear what goes unsaid. You are no psychic with a 100% accuracy rate, but you might be able to correctly deduce a few things. Taking into account both words and actions, along with expressions and gestures that also communicate, and the context that would further give meaning to them. Much can be explicit, blatantly obvious and evident, but much can also be implicit, and take particular attentiveness. If you aspire to be good at this, you must try to not miss too many cues. 

It can be taxing, however, so you can give yourself permission to save it for certain occasions and/or only moderately do it in most of them. When you are talented or practice the skill, soon enough you’ll be fluent at it and it’ll come more effortlessly.

If you're looking to get along and belong, you can begin by deciding who you want to be (and accept the consequences of it). Somebody who shakes things up? Somebody who mediates? Somebody who alleviates? Somebody who accompanies? Somebody who enriches? Somebody who uplifts? Who? You can be (and do) all of these, at a given moment, if you can pull it off. But what you might want to avoid is being somebody so irritating that you become insufferable to most or all around.

What are the needs and the wants present and how can you contribute to those? Is there an elephant in the room that nobody speaks of but crave for somebody to? Is there slack to pick up after? What can you do to make it all better? 

And if not that, how do you seamlessly weave in to be a part of it?

CREDIT: AI-Generated Examples done on Leonardo.AI

Republican Vs. Democrat (Bigot vs. Snowflake)?

So this is the dilemma in the United States of America that cannot be ignored, whether you live there or not. And given the results of the 2024 presidential elections, it looks as though we’ll have Donald J. Trump representing Republicans for the next 4 years. If that is the case, there are a few things I’d like to bring up and clear out before going forward.

• Right and far-right cloaked as “moderate” and “left-leaning”
The left, you took it too far. We, the ones with you from the start, tried to warn you but you kept going. It not only gave people on the right more excuses to be against you, but it also gave them a cloak to pretend they stood for being sensible and reasonable, “moderates”, when, in reality, they weren’t going to support you anyway. People went on to speak of all the ways you were becoming deranged without justification as if they weren’t too in their own ways. I’m not saying you have to always play nice, because that doesn’t get anyone anywhere against oppressors and people who simply do not care, but you’ve got to stay sane and within the bounds of what is fair and considerate.

• Women, PoC, LGBT+ for Trump
You give me second-hand embarrassment. I’ve yet to come across a sound & valid argument from you. Go on, I’ll be waiting. Though while making faces hearing the lamest takes coming out of you.

• “You’re just being a crybaby with no real issues!”
Is that how you were when for a brief moment you held less power and were disregarded? Because that’s you. Our issues are real. You can’t relate if you’re not in our shoes and can’t even be bothered to look past your own nose. Or you’re just happy to conform no matter what. Which is not our reality (whether we like it or not). I’m not about to attempt to develop sensitivity and empathy in you. Do your homework if you will.

• “But you’re just delicate snowflakes with first-world problems!”
And you holding on to your fragile egos and illusions with entitlement problems? Look, there are people dying and in extreme poverty. Their problems are immensely worse than whether or not you correctly use pronouns. But are you doing anything helpful for them? Or are you just mad about how you get called out and aren’t celebrated when you don’t treat others with dignity?

• “You sex-addict murderer have no say!”
The whole deal about abortion is more complex than that. While I believe people should have some restraint and reservation when it comes to sexual intercourse, I also believe it is a lot more harmful (to both child and bearer) to go through an unwanted pregnancy than to safely have an abortion early enough. Also, how about men dick around less and instead make motherhood more - legitimately- appealing if you’re so concerned about babies?

• “It's exaggeration! We're not bigots! It’s not because she’s a black woman!”
Is it now? See the wave of blatant racism and sexism that was unleashed after the election results, as you rejoiced in your victory. I’m not going to say that every vote for Donald Trump (or against Kamala Harris) was because of racism and sexism, but can you now deny that it had a part in it?

• Insane nitpicking on one side while letting the other side slide
We have a saying for that here. “Buscandole la 5ta pata al gato.” Basically, you had no proper argument but still searched and searched for something, regardless of how absurd, to make a point with. I’m still waiting for anything that isn’t clear bias and refusal to concede. Or are you omniscient and “just know” but can’t explain it? I wouldn’t bet on that from most of you. At least a few were straightforward enough to admit it simply benefited them personally and their preferences for the country while the rest were still pretending it was about virtue and merit. But okay, let’s look at our own failures and mistakes too.

• Overuse of terms such as fascist, racist, etc.
Y’all. We ought to reserve those terms for where they truly fit. Too many lefties threw those around at any opportunity and now their meanings are diluted, forcing us to go into thorough breakdowns with official definitions and relevant facts in order to even come close to being taken seriously when such issues are highlighted.

• Derogation of conspiracy theories and theorists
Similarly, too many lefties made it so that anything that could be called a conspiracy theory was somehow inherently delusional. People plot, people scheme, people keep secrets, people do things on planes higher than yours that you can barely grasp. It is a thing that happens. Yes, a lot of the time it is paranoia and/or the brain craving mysteries to solve and connections to make even when they aren’t there. But at times there is indeed something going on.

• Voting for Trump shows you’re foolish, vile, or just self-centered
Just… get their perspectives from them and critically think about them. Unless there’s something major at play unbeknownst to most that someone is somehow in on unlike the rest of us, the reasons people are voicing they are choosing Trump for aren’t very bright or kind. Just say you want more chaos and inequality.

• “Cutting people off! Why so butthurt?!”
I cut people off for less. Maybe you should too. Why are YOU so butthurt when people decide they’d rather not be close to or around you? Time and energy are precious resources and should be invested accordingly. That said, there are exceptions that can be made. But it depends. All things considered, it depends.

• “Checkmate! Weren’t you the party of ‘tolerance’?”
I’ll tolerate diversity along with some degree of friction and conflict that arises because of it in my neighbors, but there are lines to draw out of self-preservation. It does get out of hand. Yet, what about you? Are you drawing yours merely for control?

• Arguing about Politics is exhausting, more so with dense & deluded Republicans
It’s like… Nobody’s paying us to tutor you, in particular, on courses that go from basic to advanced while you display an unwillingness to learn. If we tune out, chances are it doesn’t mean it was a sharp debate.

• Content creators everywhere making content about Politics
That’s A PLUS, though. So the burden isn’t entirely on only a few. You’ll have to sift through (and stomach awful takes here and there for the sake of getting the whole picture) to be properly informed, but it’s a relief. You can also curate them. Furthermore, what are they gonna do? Ban free speech like that wasn’t what they were claiming to promote? Literally the only thing they had going against the too-easily-offended left is now the left’s weapon.

• Did Harris run her campaign poorly?
Trump’s was worse. Unless you prize theatrics and nonsense in a running president. And *gestures* whatever that was. But to be fair, expecting a flawless campaign is crazy, more so on short notice and with so much already stacked against her. I imagine she had her hands tied in some regards and, quite frankly, I’m not fully convinced she lost.

• I don’t know Kamala Harris personally, but…
I wish I did. So that I could be more sure and confident about her despite my general distrust of politicians. But still, while faltering in that sense, can you really believe that TRUMP is the better choice? Harris would at least have given us a different type of show. But I guess we’re back to more from this clown. 🤡

• USA affects the entire world...
I’m just currently praying and hoping it will be manageable for all of us.

• We’ve got enough sympathy already going around, TAKE ACTION!
Whether you’re in a position to be of significant assistance or not, there are steps that you can take to keep contributing to causes in favor of a better world for all of us.
- Foster your abilities (physical, mental, emotional, spiritual).
- Have & keep firm stances against corruption and injustice.
- Lend a hand and reach out to others who are and will be fighting the same fight.
- Be strategic and tactical when you must (forget needless self-righteousness and virtue-signaling).
- Commit for the long term and DO NOT GIVE UP.

I’m with what makes sense and I’ll keep sharing what I can. 💙

Sunday, November 3, 2024

Getting Past Blocks


You wish to make art but, suddenly, you can’t. Fret not, this is quite normal and it can be overcome. One or more things could be happening that are blocking your inspiration from coming in, passing through, and expressing itself.

It can indeed be alarming, however. You’re working on that project that you wish would succeed or working at a job that expects you to deliver. But then, what would normally come effortlessly to you isn’t coming at all. And you may be at a loss as to why.

What could be happening? You must take a moment. That’s right, set aside some time to dedicate to solving this issue. You ain’t getting anywhere without doing so. So come to terms with the fact that, to be productive, you must stop producing - or attempting to, anyway.


First and foremost, how exhausted are you? Did you overwork yourself? Get the rest that you require! Once you’ve done that, you can look at the potential causes of your block(s), which may be among the following:

- Paralyzing perfectionism. Often the main culprit. Waiting for everything to be perfect or meet the conditions for it to be before doing or accepting anything.
- Irritating environment. Too messy and noisy or, alternatively, too bland and void to withstand. 
- Blurred goals. How would you shoot without any clear aim?
- Stifled flow. You may have habituated yourself to strict rules and procedures that should now be revised or dropped entirely.
- Pending interruption. You just know, consciously or not, that an interruption is coming and you’d rather or ought to immerse in this. 
- Apparent pointlessness. It can be discouraging if it doesn’t bring any results we personally value.
- Loneliness. You might need to collaborate with others or at least socialize for a bit with people who truly feel like company.
- Joylessness. Since when has it become a chore? Make it exciting again. Remove more of what strips the joy and/or include more of what brings it. Or simply make way for it to happen on its own.

Furthermore, it may be that you have already emptied yourself of the good, great, or relevant concepts and ideas that you could bring to life. If that is so, it is time to fill yourself up. Seek inspiration once more. Look around, in and out, and get the sparks to make your own magic.

Can you think of more potential blocks getting in the way?

CREDIT: AI-Generated Examples done on Leonardo.AI

Friday, November 1, 2024

An Unbearable Situation?

If you’re in a situation you’d rather not be in, take a deep breath and softly let it out.

Go for a walk and sit in a pleasant spot where you can be by yourself to let your feelings surface and your thoughts roam. If that’s not enough and you can afford it without too much trouble, get yourself far away for 2-3 days, in a safe and cozy place where you can be alone. Physical distance promotes psychological distance. And you’ll need that to view the situation objectively.

Through reflecting on it, you may find that:
a) The situation in itself isn’t so terrible and merely adjusting your values and judgments on it will let it be perceived as favorable. Sometimes we are indeed too idealistic and forget that nothing is perfect in every way and the grass isn’t always greener on the other side.
b) The situation really does have quite a few things that are harmful to you no matter how you look at it. But in such a case, dismissing it all together might not be the best solution and you could still choose to work on what it’s lacking.
c) The situation definitely isn’t for you and you should begin to break out of it, whether you have something better to switch it for or not.

Relax, though. Chances are you have time. Just try not to get further entangled in it unless and until you can be sure you can and will stick by it for longer.

There’s usually guilt and shame around making big changes - especially when promises, contracts, and other commitments are involved. But you, your loved ones, and those who love you should and would put your well-being first.

Thanksgiving Month


November arrives again!
And with it, like it or not, the Thanksgiving mood.
If you’d like to practice gratitude, you can indulge it with me.
I celebrate it with cultural and blessed content and vibes here and there.


Thursday, October 31, 2024

Cutting Through It


This time, I’m showing up as… the most “me” I can be if my insides were on the outside (or as close as I can get to such an abstract concept).

Covered in black, with some red coming through. And silvery accessories carrying symbolism. Not leaving out a bit of shimmer here and there. All to ask the question: Is this what both draws in and terrifies some? And at last, close a torturous cycle with it.


Though various motifs are present, swords are what primarily stand out for this entity that’s essentially crawling out of a nightmare to remind all that bravado isn’t bravery and roughness isn’t toughness. Also that cleverness and wittiness, or what passes or is presumed as such, isn’t enough.

Other than that, it is a dancer at heart!

Note: I was going to add tiny gems to my face but, unfortunately, couldn't get the rest I needed to fully do all of this. Had to settle for quick selfies, too, instead of setting up the scene and posing more. But at least got something immortalized.
 

Playing With Fire


It’s out! I’d been looking forward to it! And so thrilled that it was basically made to go with Halloween. Playing With Fire, a concept album inspired by Frankenstein.

After wondering for around a year about JC Chasez, whether he’d keep making art or not, he’s finally giving us vital signs! More than that, released a whole album and revealed his plans to further work with it. And I’m eager to see what comes out of this! JC always came across to me as the most intense (and dark) member of NSYNC but, hearing that he’s into this type of story, to such a degree, was a pleasant surprise. Welcome back! You were missed.

I loved listening to this album. I didn’t want to get into it without being in the right head space to fully immerse in it. But as the clock ticked by, I had to dive in regardless. And it turned out to be the escape into another time and place that I needed to get by. As can be expected from JC, the vocals are spectacularly outstanding. But beyond that, the songs feel rich with life as they carry out the story. You can enjoy them on the surface, but it is definitely best to profoundly take it all in and even let it take you on flights of imagination. Picturing more of the world that they depict. There are breathtakingly beautiful pieces in there that feel timeless together with a few that come across as having a combination of both modern and retro styles - I really liked those for it.

For real, my only issue is that I couldn’t listen to the album for the entirety of the month of October. (I will keep listening to it outside of it, though. I’m not done with it!)

Wednesday, October 30, 2024

Speaking Your Truth

When it comes to speaking your truth, being upfront, clear, and direct is usually the best route. It might ruffle some feathers and rock the boat. It might also cause you to lose a group of people (yet strengthen the bond with those most aligned with you or make room for more of them to show up). But it'll allow you to claim the honesty badge and remain in good graces with the virtuous.

However, if for some valid reason, you can't or shouldn't do that, being indirect about it is often also an option. Not the ideal one, but still better than nothing. For example, let's say that you can't or shouldn't tell others NOT to eat rotten apples and to try fresh blueberries instead. In what ways could you lead them to the same conclusion without telling them the conclusion itself? You could speak of why it is a bad idea to consume anything rotten and/or why it is a good idea to consume something that is fresh. Alternatively, you could speak of how the positive properties of blueberries outweigh those of apples within a given context. Or some kind of mix.

Be as obvious as you can afford to be - for threading in stealth can turn into or come across as manipulation. Make it so your audience is able to have the realization that what they figured is what you meant without you having to spell it out (and reserve the right to not elaborate further).

This is easier to do (and less problematic) if you're already the kind of artist who speaks in riddles, has to be read between the lines, and/or includes hidden clues in their work. Then it is nothing new and it is something people are already aware of and can expect from you. Might as well be even more indirect and share pieces that speak for you.

If by no means should you speak your truth, at this or at a later time, it is for you to recognize. But remember: a non-action is also an action with (in certain cases, grave) consequences. So, while it may be understandable, you ought to weigh that too.

Speaking your truth is truly of great importance. Your reality literally shifts based on what you communicate. And holding too much in can become an unbearable burden. Therefore, even if it doesn't land well, or is not wrapped properly, plenty can be forgiven for that sake. Nonetheless, engage in due reflection so that you can indeed be truthful.

Sunday, October 27, 2024

Disarming The Monster


They’re bigger, and stronger, and maybe even faster. Do you even stand a chance? You do. Monsters, by nature, have one major disadvantage: They are monsters.

This means that their actions, their motivations, and their intentions, are monstrous too. At least enough of them to grant them the title. And if you can identify them as such, you can begin leaving them without much to use against you. You might not beat them entirely, but it is quite possible that you can get them to a point where they can no longer harm you as much.


What kind are they? Are they obvious, where all around can see them being monstrous, or are they sneaky, where you’d have to pay close attention to notice their monstrous strategies and tactics? The former has more room to move and do terrible things, but the latter is more likely to get away with them.

In either case, take note of what they’re doing. How gross and nasty is it? Monsters usually are desperate for power. Not because it will allow them to do more for the world or for others, but because they are pathetically fearful without it. They ought to dominate, to control, to somehow be above and beyond others because they cannot handle a scenario in which they aren’t. And they would go with any means for it. Lying to themselves, lying to others, and overall being weak in areas that you might not be. Such as actually being fine with yourself.

You can call them out right away or continue to observe how far they’d go for longer. Caution, though, you’re giving them more time to do more with as you wait for more samples. This can be detrimental and dangerous to you. But if you’re watching from a safe distance and your spot is secured, you might want to let them be for a bit (unless you better intervene for others’ sake). Then gather what they’ve shown you.

How deluded are they? How much are they overcompensating for? How miserable are they making themselves? How much are they attributing to you (projecting) what is theirs to own up to? How better would we be without them? These questions, reflected upon enough, would render a significant portion of their words and actions null. At least the ones attempting to make you feel worthless and/or subordinate to them. 

From there, you must use your autonomy, remorselessly, to either further deal with them or completely remove them from your life.

CREDIT: AI-Generated Examples done on Leonardo.AI

Monday, October 21, 2024

Was that a sign?

Signs are everywhere and in everything, more so when not taken at face value and instead are further interpreted. It can be intriguing and fascinating to notice them, and they can bring you to new revelations, but assuming that they’re all leading you closer to where you are meant to go can be both disorienting and maddening. Not to mention, can also create awkward and uncomfortable situations. Part of life is about presenting you with opportunities to exercise discernment and judgment, letting you examine and determine more of your life rather than fully dictating it for you. This can be especially difficult and hard to do as we may dread finding ourselves at a point where we painfully regret not heeding the signs more. But remember that, for the important decisions of your life, it should take more than just a hint that you casually or even randomly came across with.

Sunday, October 20, 2024

Nightmares & Terrors


Have you had strange dreams? What could be creepily lurking down there? Some would say that dreams are completely random, but I don’t believe that to be the case.

However, dream interpretation can be quite hit-or-miss and overall unreliable. It is not, at all, guaranteed that the precise meanings commonly attributed to the symbols and the patterns that emerge in your dreams will give you accurate insight into a present or future situation in your life. They might, though, prompt you to pay attention to what you could have overlooked and have a few new realizations that are founded in reality. Am I saying there’s no magic to it? Not necessarily. And recurring themes are definitely worth reflecting on.

The subconscious is unmeasurably complex, endlessly intriguing and fascinating, quite inexplicable as well. And if you are the kind of person who often has and remembers dreams, you might have noticed that it can sometimes give you the most beautifully soothing dreams but also the most horrendously upsetting ones.


Typically, having bad dreams indicates a restlessness in one or more aspects of your being. What worries you? What scares you? What do you fear? What do you dread? What has caused you intense pain and/or suffering? What is threatening and dangerous to you? All of this is likely to show up while you’re asleep, as if you no longer hold the door closed to them and they can pass over to torment and torture you. If not just to remind you that they are there.

Horrifying as it can be, they are an opportunity to dive in, face, and overcome what could be holding you back or even sabotaging you. Anything that makes you nervous is an area where confidence is lacking. And confidence, the true kind, gets you through anything.

Maybe there is trauma to work through, possibly stored shame, and possibly stored guilt. Wounds you are yet to properly tend to, too. Illnesses as well. But maybe the enemy isn’t within. Maybe it is outside yourself.

You could be under stressful and overwhelming circumstances, absorbing tainted energy from your environment, sensing toxicity going around or even your way. Perhaps something is wrong and you’re picking up on it. Whatever it is, it is messing with you and your ability to rest.

For all we know, it could be dark entities visiting to drain, consume, and possess you. That sounds crazy, but something could come out of it.

If this is you, get to tackling it all because, yes, you can stop having bad dreams if you get to the bottom of them. Resolve what you can and come to terms with what you can’t.

CREDIT: AI-Generated Examples done on Leonardo.AI

Scorpio's Description


♏ SCORPIO
Scorpio, the eighth sign, is a water and fixed sign, recognized for its terrifying intensity. Known for its depth and obsession, it delves into the mysteries of life with relentless curiosity, getting to the bottom of it. Often associated with death, transformation, and rebirth, as it fearlessly embraces radical change and growth. Their magnetic presence draws others in, while their penetrating gaze may intimidate them. Infamous for going to extremes.

Spiritually, Scorpio pulls us into discovery and pushes us toward evolution. It teaches us how to face the darkness within and without, incorporating our shadows to become our truest selves.

For context and more of relevance, please read about The Zodiac.

Wednesday, October 16, 2024

Stirring (Without Context) or Alleviating (With Context)

It is literally impossible to provide full context to every single move. At times, it is counterproductive too. But unless you're purposely aiming to stir things up through confusion or even rage, as part of a larger strategy, you could see if there's a way to make yourself come across as more balanced and clear so you don't lose trust or even gain more of it - and if that would ultimately be more helpful.

Sunday, October 13, 2024

Blessings and Damnations


What if this means something? What if it’s been with you? Some things certainly feel and seem like something cast over us. But how true is that?

Life is full of different people. And with them, it is also full of different paths that can be taken. And along with all of that, different traits and behaviors that they’re all composed of. Some “good”, some “bad”. Some convenient, some not so much. Some putting you at a significant advantage, and some at a disadvantage. Might be so extreme or immense that it could even cause you to ask what you did to deserve it.

You can call it a soul contract. Or just genetics combined with the environment and determinism in and around them. But it is still quite strange when it is as though you’ve been bestowed with a particular twist that has an inexplicably great impact in your life, in what you can and cannot do, where you can and cannot go, and what happens around you because or in spite of you and what you’re like.


Acknowledge and embrace it. Many of us waste too much of what we’re granted by desperately trying to be anything but what we are. Disowning what sets us apart and therefore gives us something different to bring to the world. Perhaps because we had other plans and you’d rather not let anything or anyone but yourself define you. And that’s valid to an extent. But if you find yourself dismissing and denying a bit too much, maybe you should reconsider.

Both blessings and damnations can be difficult to accept. For numerous reasons. Though blessings are generally positive and constructive, or ultimately are, we might be reluctant to accept them or closed-off to them. And damnations? Well, who wants those? But they can be the precursor to intense learning that leads to profoundly transformative growth and eventually places you in a position of mastery that very few can reach. And quite importantly, in certain cases, your blessings counteract your damnations or vice-versa. So, coincidentally or not, they're there for something.

Careful, though. Choose your battles wisely. Draw your lessons as you go.

CREDIT: AI-Generated Examples done on Leonardo.AI

Sunday, October 6, 2024

Invisible Assistance or Sabotage


You might be overlooking something! Certain things aren’t as obvious as others. And sometimes we’re just not paying enough attention. But there is more in the works that we’ve yet to notice.

This is why it is always important to pause and reflect for a moment before making a change, adding or removing a part of something else. Because for all we know, they could be doing significantly more than we realize. Assisting or sabotaging.


Needless to say, it happens with people too. Those who help aren’t always loud about it. In fact, in many instances, they might purposely choose to be as quiet as they can possibly be, sneakily assisting you with one or more issues. Maybe they’d rather you don’t notice or maybe they’d rather others don’t notice. After all, why draw attention to your weak, faulty, or lacking spots? And of course, could be both too. Whatever the case, this is usually one of the purest forms of service to receive and it is sad it is this quality that at the same time makes it more likely to be taken for granted and only missed once it’s gone.

Alternatively, those going against you also aren’t always loud about it. They could be as sneaky or even more. Like an invisible sickness or a poison that you only find out about when it is too late  or far advances and it has already done much of the damage, irreversibly so. The sneakier they are the better so that they can continue to mess things up. So besides keeping quiet, they could put on disguises to cover their tracks. Pretending to be something they are not (probably acting as if they're solely assisting you) so that you won’t suspect them or would even drop your guard around them. It is twisted.

So look around! Take stock of what is happening. What is there, where, when, how, and why. What connects to what and what affects what? How would it go without one or another?

CREDIT: AI-Generated Examples done on Leonardo.AI

Friday, October 4, 2024

Within Temptation's Memories


Within Temptation has been powerful and empowering on more than one occasion, freeing and fueling the spirit. And that’s part of what first drew me to them. They could really be felt at a soul level. Yet, there are more vulnerable aspects to become aware of and acknowledge that shouldn’t be lacking to grasp a cohesive whole. And this MV brings one of them to attention.

Here, we get GHOSTS. Hopefully, not just as figments of the imagination. Holding on to what is gone or what isn’t quite there, having a bond one would rather not break, honoring promises and carrying on. It is a frightening thought to be left alone by those you care for the most.

After having lost essential people in my life, who were also very special to me, the idea of mingling with the dead is more inviting than off-putting. And certainly taken seriously. So as much as I can joke about everything, I can appreciate the depth and strength that memories carry when it comes to those who cannot accompany us no matter how much we wish they could. And I’m just so grateful for such a hauntingly beautiful portal to all of that.

“I hope there is a way to give me a sign you’re ok. Reminds me again it’s worth it all.”
This often happens to me. For loved ones beyond, I hope that, somewhere, they’re okay. And on days when I end up worrying they might not be, I’d wish for a sign (even if there's little or nothing I can do). There are things I still do because of them, regardless of whether or not they still exist (or ever expected me to this degree), because I take what we shared as a legacy and at times I may get discouraged. But rather than being a burden, it is something that pushes me forward. Something I'm better with.

I’d be one to be forever skeptical and demand solid proof before fully believing anything. But I can’t deny that it is a comforting thought to have spirits around that are trying to guide and protect you. I’d also argue that it makes perfect sense to prefer not to let go to waste the contributions of others that got you where you are and their potential to take you even further, more so when they were unspeakably meaningful.

   Spine-chilling Queens' MV #3