People without vision, empathy, or any desire to stand out beyond having, maintaining, or reaching a higher social status will continually chip at your self-esteem, making you feel inadequate. They may argue that they have "social skills" better than yours and that, therefore, they know best how to behave. When the reality may be closer to that of them being false, manipulative, and willing to do whatever it takes for the image they believe is appropriate to have. If not just so overly concerned about it that it'll rule you too.
If that's something you can and wish to live with, then fine. My site is not for you. But if you know that you gain the most success AND fulfillment by staying lucid and making bold moves, then please don't give into that.